Whenever he saw me, John (not his real name) would tell me he was going to come to my office to start work on his estate plan. His second wife had died two years before, and he had inherited her substantial estate, including a $500,000 IRA. His intention was to leave everything to his second wife's side of the family, because he had no relatives except for a daughter who he had not seen since she was two years old. His second wife had always discouraged John from having any contact with his first wife or with his daughter, who, as a result, had grown up without a father.
John died suddenly one weekend, and he had gotten no further with his estate plan than a promise to make an appointment. That meant that his estate would have to be probated and intestate succession would determine who inherited his estate. John had only one child, the daughter he had ignored for 30 years. She became the sole beneficiary of the estate, a result that would have startled John's late wife.
But not having a will wasn't the only mistake that John made. When he filled out the beneficiary form for the IRA that he inherited from his second wife, instead of making members of his second wife's family the beneficiaries of the IRA, he simply put in the words "my estate" as the beneficiary. It was a $500,000 mistake, because that meant that the IRA had to be probated, and then distributed to the sole heir of the estate, John's daughter. If John had gotten the beneficiary correct, the IRA would not have been probated and would have gone to his second wife's family.
The daughter was delighted, to say the least. She wound up with the IRA, a house, investments, bank accounts, and everything else her absentee father had owned. It was hard to think of a person more worthy of such an inheritance: she had bills to pay, a job with no future and a dismal economic outlook. Maybe it was Karma, or maybe it was an example of procrastination crashing into reality.